A vulnerable share and perspective that helped me take my healing and wellness to a remarkable level.
And, dare I say, while diving into the research for my book, it's become evident that our perception is everything when it comes to helping the body do what it's capable of doing.
Please understand, interpretation is everything. Often times we talk around things, gladly overlook or possibly don't recognize something because it's been culturally normalized.
My childhood and external experiences with my mother appeared normal to the world around. However, I remember how I felt on the inside.
For years, I blamed and shamed myself and sometimes her which made my INNER world even harder to exist in.
Dis-ease
Cancer became a circumstance for me to go through ... EVEN THOUGH the body actually produces peptides that prevent cells from becoming cancerous ... I KID YOU NOT!
Why is cancer so prevalent then?
Continual emotional and environmental distress .... self-regulation is the secret and essential oils are part of the combination for unlocking better health!!
Years ago, the book Radical Honesty revolutionized my life. I believe in truth, yet mine was always colored with emotions. Radical Honesty is about getting to the facts without any emotional input.
I have always loved my mother, yet for a good portion of my life, our interactions were undermined by emotions. From a distance, I felt wounded. Up close, I was in attack mode. Both survival.
But to step back and see it with the eyes of True Love, I began to detect the nuggets. I recognized my mother as a gift of God / the Universe showing me the way to being and living the life meant for me.
God Consciousness expresses Itself through all of Life. Human judgment separates good from bad.
The following blurb is my response to another post after seeing this image....
After realizing that blessings are packaged in many ways, my hope is to touch at least one more heart!
'I’ve had a horrible relationship with my mother my entire life. Spent years trying to prove I was ok just to feel loved.
Deep within, I knew and know she loves me. I also knew and know she couldn’t get to be her fullest expression.
Although painful, through my own evolution, I began to see that what I believed to be an inability, her own trauma, and, and, and … was in fact the perfect catalyst for me to come into my own realization.
Had she been open and encouraging, the process to my becoming may not have provided me with the fortitude and resilience needed to go all in and discover what my soul is here to reveal.
A pained relationship indeed, yet the one that Truly gave birth to me.’